Ah, Instagram models. Girls who were once just pretty faces, now get to have the world at their fingertips every day of the week. They must feel like Kim K. just after that video came out.

It’s pretty hit or miss with their personalities, but it’s pretty much a guarantee that they’re going to be smoking hot. If given the opportunity, you’d date (or just do the fuckpal thing with) one too, so let’s check out some tips for landing one of these smokeshows in your bed today.

• Your Profile

  Since the best way to approach these girls is through Instagram, we are going to need to make sure your profile is top-notch. That’s step #1.

  That means you can’t post any pictures of your favorite football team’s logo, or your sweet mall-ninja weapon collection. None of that shit.

  Try to stick to pictures of you and your friends all drinking or having a good time in general. It’s important that these girls know you’re someone whos easy to hang out with – someone whos not going to be weird the first time you hang out with them.

  Next, we are going to need to work on that bio. When an Instagram model visits your profile, the first thing she will look at is your bio.

  If your bio is 3000 lines long with a bunch of lame-ass quotes and emojis that vaguely connect with your ‘sense of humor’ or whatever, she will bounce out instantly.

  So keep it simple. Quality is always better than quantity so if you have a super funny, two sentence (maybe one) bio that’ll steal her heart before she even knows what you look like.

• Direct Messaging

  Direct messaging Instagram models can seem like an intimidating interaction, but don’t let their hotness get into your head. They’re human beings just like you. That means they like it when people ask about them, and they love attention (especially Insta models), so try to make them feel special.

  Not too special though. It’s important that these girls know right off the bat that you don’t really give a shit if they reply or not. Maybe start with a funny short joke about their names. You can even ask a playful question about one of their pictures. You can show them you’ve checked out their profiles while chatting them up at the same time.

  Don’t be creepy. These kinds of girls have been starred at and crept on their whole lives. If you want to attract them, you simply have to treat them like regular human beings. Try being nice but also try to be kind of chummy like you’ve been friends for years.

  Above all, just play it cool. Don’t try too hard and don’t get lost in their charm and forget your ways.

• Fuck Ups

  There are a hundred thousand ways to fuck up this process – probably more actually.

  One of the big ones is liking every single picture they’ve ever posted in a 5-minute time span. It’s a trick everyone tries when they start following a new cute girl on Insta, and it doesn’t work unless you’re in the 8th grade. All it’s going to do is make you look like a sketch weirdo who doesn’t know how to keep his cool.

  DO NOT get angry with these girls. Not only is it lame as fuck to get mad at a girl for rejecting you, but it’ll also ruin your chances with her friends who are also 100% Instagram models. If you’re DMing models and creeping on them or swearing at them, you should probably put the phone down and take a break.

  If you follow these guidelines, you should be able to stand a chance against those male Instagram models who don’t even have to try. Good luck!

If you’ve caved into the phenomenon and have been wanting to try out dating apps, but don’t know where to start, here is a short list of some of the best apps on the market.

1. Free Dating App

Whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny Free Dating App is the most popular dating app to hit the market. There’s not another app you’ll find the most active users on than this one — ask anyone you know, and you’re bound to know at least five people that use the app. You have such a wide selection of users from your area, and beyond, you’re bound to meet someone you like.

While there is a negatively connotated hookup culture associated with Tinder, that’s a given on pretty much any dating app you download. There’s always going to be people looking to fuck, and people looking for love.  However, Free Dating App is worth a shot if you want to try online dating since it’s so widely used, easy to use, and top-rated among the dating app scene.

2. Happn

Another highly-rated dating app is Happn.

The difference between Happn and Tinder is that Happn connects you to people who’ve crossed paths with you throughout your day — it can’t get any more local than that. Whenever you walk past someone who also uses Happn, they’ll appear in your app the next time you open it. It will also tell you when, where, and how many times you passed this person.

If you’re someone who is afraid of rejection, or values privacy, then this is also a great app for you. You have the option of “liking” someone, but they won’t know you’ve done so unless they do it back to you. although, this may be bothersome to others knowing that this person didn’t even see their request if they don’t like you as well, it saves some the sting of rejection privately.

There’s even a built-in game where you can guess which profile out of 4 you’ve recently crossed paths with like you!

3. Coffee Meets Bagel

This dating app removes the mindless swiping that is a popular feature on many current dating apps. Instead, at noon every day, you’ll receive a preselected pool of matches for you based on your demographic preferences and more nuanced factors like interests.

Coffee Meets Bagel even provides you with icebreaker questions to start your conversation with each match!

They cater to the LGBTQ community as well.

4. Bumble

This is another dating app that ranks high in the number of active users.

With over 21 million sign-ups, Bumble is a top competitor against other dating apps like Tinder.
One of the best things about Bumble is that it is a very female-oriented app that lets women make the first move when it comes to interacting with matches. This is an amazing feature because we all know that women run the show when it comes to dating, so you’ll always be talking to a woman that is interested in you, and it saves us girls from unwanted messaging or worse — dick pics.

If you’re looking for romantic connections on Bumble, that means you’ll have to wait for a female you’re interested in to make the first move to form “meaningful relationships in a respectful way,” as according to their motto.

But what sets Bumble apart from other dating apps is that they’re not just solely for people seeking potential romantic relationships. They also are an app for people looking to make friends and network. You can use Bumble on regular mode, which is for dating, BFF mode, which is to make friends, or on Bizz mode, a business model that lets you connect with mentors and create new career opportunities.

5. JustDate

JustDate is a location-based dating app that’s great when you want to meet locals in the area. They have a pretty high number of users for a smaller brand, but their quality is what sets them apart from bigger apps like Bumble, etc. They have so many niches and categories for you to meet someone through, such as gay men, atheist women, Latina women, Jewish men, BBWs, and more!
They have a wide selection and many users, and sign-up is easy!

But the number one best part about all of these apps?
They’re free to sign-up and use!

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If you’re looking for the best websites to visit for gay cam boys, here are five that are worth checking out.

1. CameraBoys

Highly rated by PornChatReviews, CameraBoys is one of the best gay cam websites you can visit. They receive thousands of viewers on a daily basis to watch their plethora of male models who are not only gorgeous but enticing.

They cater to a global audience, meaning you can choose what language you want to see a session in — English, German, Spanish, Chinese, Portuguese, etc. Their unique model selection can provide you with a good time in any language!

Two great features that CameraBoys also has is private chat and VIP shows. If you want more than just a kinky show that gets straight to the point and want to have a conversation and some teasing with, one of their cam boys, then you’ll love the private chat feature. Here, you’ll be able to talk privately with a model and have a more intimate experience. With their VIP shows option, CameraBoys uses only their very best models with experience and with the looks that know how to turn you on.

Of course, you’ll have to pay for this feature, but CameraBoys is very generous and gives out tons of free credits to those who sign up!

2. GayChatApp

Another top-rated gay cam website, Gay Chat App has an exclusively gay live cam selection for your viewing pleasure. You can search for someone to watch by filtering your preferences on role, age, ethnicity, language, body type, weight, height, hair color and length, body hair, body mods, body eye color, and so many more categories. You can also look for couples shows, solo shows, or shows with three or more participants.

They have a Flirt Phone feature that is similar to CameraBoys’ private chat feature, where you can talk to the models via live chat. You can also send gifts to these performers, tip them, add your favorite models to an organized list, and join fan clubs.

Lastly, Gay Chat App has a cool feature where you can choose if you want to get notified when your favorite performers are live!

3. Chaturbate

Although not known exclusively as a gay cam website, Chaturbate does have a widely acclaimed section where male cam models go live. What sets Chaturbate apart from other, even exclusively gay, cam websites are its features.

On Chaturbate, you have the power to control select models’ cameras with the PanCamera feature, join fan clubs that offer unlimited access to a model’s library, and you have the option of going premium.

You can also filter your search with over 50 criteria, narrowing your results to your perfect guy.
Chaturbate is a great site to visit because not only do they have a fantastic list of private shows, but they have some of the best free shows to offer, too.

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On Cam4’s male section, there are so many live users that when you log on, you’ll see their trending shows right away, which there are plenty of. If by the odd chance that nothing catches your eye, you can browse their selection of male cam shows by filtering what you want to see. You can choose filters from gender, orientation, body type, hair color, ethnicity, and even locale.

To find what you want to see faster, the site features a sidebar where all of their trending tags will show, and you can see what shows are on there.

5. HunkPrivates

HunkPrivates is the site you should visit when you want playful and hot male cam models!
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They also have the Flirt Phone feature for you to talk privately with models, but what they have that other sites don’t is Cam2Cam, a feature that lets your favorite models see you.

Regardless of how laughable Fifty Shades of Grey truly is (I mean that ice cream scene in Fifty Shades Freed was hilarious), I have to give E.L. James props because thanks to her kinky sex has become increasingly less taboo. Since the three books were published – which are literally glorified Twilight Fanfiction – like hot wax, people slowly began to warm up to the idea of kink.

About 36% of people have reported that they’ve engaged in some sort of bondage or BDSM-like play in their sexual lives, so it’s not as uncommon as you might think. And it’s actually extremely healthy for you too (if you’re into it, that is). Living out one’s fantasies has an overwhelmingly positive effect on the psyche, so you should not keep your desires a secret from your partner! If you think they might judge you, remember that a good chunk of people are open to kinky sex!

Here are a few reasons why kinky sex is – in my, and a lot of other people’s, opinion – the best sex:

1. Health benefits (mental and physical!)

Learning that engaging in kinky sex has a lot of health benefits usually surprises people. I mean how can spanking be good for your body, right?

Engaging in S&M or some other sort of kink creates a state of consciousness similar to meditation, yoga, and what’s referred to as a “runner’s high”. In the fetish community this state of mind is often referred to as “sub space” and/or “top space” depending on one’s role in the sexual scenario.
This feeling is created through giving and reviving pain as well as power exchange between partners. This feeling decreases cortisol levels which benefit both physical and mental health by decreasing anxiety.

All in all, kinky sex is good for both your body and your mind… but what about your relationship?…

2. Communication!

One of the greatest benefits kinky sex has is the positive affect it has on communication between partners. BDSM could be dangerous due to use of pain-infliction and restraints, so there is an insane amount of trust that has to exist between partners.

Partners are forced to be hyperaware of their sexual desires and limits as well as their partners. In vanilla sex, sexual desires and limits aren’t necessarily discussed at length before sex. That conversation isn’t an expectation in vanilla sex, however it’s common place when engaging in BDSM. Partners often sit down and discuss their likes, dislikes, and hard-limits well before having sex and engaging in kink.

This openness improves communication beyond what is usual for vanilla partners.

3. Strengthens intimacy

When restraints and blindfolds and pain is involved, there has to be trust. It takes a lot of trust to let someone put you in a position where you are both physically and mentally vulnerable. Because of this physical risk, the level of intimacy increases between couples who have kinky sex.

Additionally, practicing BDSM is also thought to encourage fidelity between partners! If one’s needs are being met while maintaining an open and honest line of communication, they’re less likely to cheat.